Moving on is a part of our everyday life. There are days when you push harder and days when you can’t push at all. The strength that allows you to leave and move on comes from inside you. As human beings, we tend to hold on to good memories, forgetting the bad ones. When this happens, you have to remind yourself why you left in the first place.
Don’t think of all the reasons why you should have stayed.
Moving on and focusing on yourself is not selfish. It is an act of self-love. Yet when you’ve been in the habit of focusing on others, it can be challenging to shift gears.
Moving on is all about letting go. Holding on to something halfway is more challenging than not holding on at all. It is pointless to hold on to things that aren’t meant to be yours. It is difficult as to how you’re going to let go, and there will come days when you have to let go all over again.
But as long as you don’t give up on it, you will be able to let go completely.
Moving on requires strength. The people we see as strong now were once weak too. We achieve true strength through tolerating things that we never thought we could accept. Strength isn’t something that comes to us all of a sudden, but you gain strength through past experiences. These experiences are what make you stronger every day. This process of becoming stronger is extremely difficult, and moving on plays an essential role in it.
Your needs change, and you should consider that.
Moving on changes you. You will never grow into a better person without change. When we move on from something, it changes our perspectives and transforms us from within. We see perspectives in a new light, and we can relate to those who are battling to move away from the past.
Moving on transforms you into a completely different person who appreciates all that was and all that will be.
Moving on opens new doors of opportunity. Should you hold on to the past, you can never open the doors to your future. You need to understand that by replacing old things with new ones, there is a huge possibility that everything will work out well. Your own choices determine your life path. If you don’t move on, how will you know what you’ve been missing out on your whole life?
We might be missing out on so many good things because we’re not willing to move on.
Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting. You can’t erase the things that happened; it is impossible to do so. Moving on means letting go of past hurts and wrongs. Let go of the things that have barricaded the path to becoming the best versions of ourselves.
Only when we move on and let go of the past can we have a better and bright future.
There is nothing wrong with putting energy into relationships and loved ones. We all need love, companionship, and intimacy, but you also need to focus on yourself and your needs. Therefore sometimes, you need to move on.
At the end of the day, neglecting your dreams and desires can hold you back. A life lived solely in the pursuance of the happiness of others may not bring you much personal satisfaction.