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How To Keep A Conversation Going – For Dating, Texting & More

We all prefer to have smooth conversations instead of awkward ones. 

Sometimes it might be hard for you to keep a conversation going. Worry no more, for here are some tips that will come in handy when maintaining a conversation and make it interesting.

1. Get curious.

Show genuine curiosity when talking with a person. You can use phrases like “I’m curious about your…” and “ I’m curious about what you think of…”. Get rid of your own agenda and let the other person experience your interest and curiosity in them.

2. Find common ground.

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To find common ground is an easy way to bond with new people. It could be shared likes or beliefs. Avoid talking about politics and religions because you don’t know where a person stands concerning them. Talking about these subjects might lead to disagreements. 

3. Make sure it’s a good time to talk.

Talking to someone at a bad time will definitely ensure that the conversation fails. A conversation needs to take place when both people consider it to be a good time to converse.

You can directly ask them whether it is a bad time to talk. If it is a good time to talk, then the other person will surely be interested in the conversation. If you speak to someone during a bad time, then the outcome will be negative.

4. Listen intently 

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Listening separates a good conversation from a bad one. Active listening shows that you are interested in the conversation, which also helps build up and strengthen relationships. To listen well, you need to pay attention to what the other person is saying instead of thinking about how you’re going to respond. 

5. Ask open-ended questions 

Asking open-ended questions shows your curiosity. Close-ended questions lead to dull conversations. So in order to make a conversation interesting, you need to focus on open-ended questions. It also helps in making the other person involved in the conversation feel special.

6. Use compliments 

Build the conversation on compliments. It is a fact that people love to talk about themselves and that they adore compliments. You can compliment their appearance as well as character. Compliments help a person soften and open up. 

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7. Be direct 

You need to be direct in order to communicate effectively. If you fail to do so, then there is a higher chance of miscommunication. By being direct, your words don’t get lost in translation. 

8. Have good eye contact and body language 

This is crucial when conversing with a person. Proper eye contact and body language can help a person pick up when a conversation has run its course. When chatting, the level of eye contact and your posture can help us get your message through to the other person successfully. 

A few good ways to start a conversation

  • Start a conversation that will lead to where you want to take it.
  • Start with weather or something they may be interested in.
  • Start with a compliment.
  • Start by asking a favor.
  • Start with some light humor.
  • Start by asking a question peripherally related to your intended topic.

Examples of how to have deep conversations 

  • Start with small talk and slowly go deeper. 
  • Choose relaxed, informal environments.
  • Find like-minded people, so your subject will engage both.
  • Ask a personal question about the topic.
  • Share something about yourself.
  • Ask follow-up questions.
  • Be in the moment.

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