They say that girls are complicated, but as a girl, you might have come to realize that guys are complicated too. Guys flirt with you one day and ignore you the next day.
As a girl facing this kind of situation, you could hold on to the shred of hope that he likes you, or you could raise your standards. You should realize your worth and not settle for someone inconsistent.
If a guy is giving you mixed signals, it means that he doesn’t care about you or making you wait. All he cares about is himself. So don’t hold on to his compliments because, by the next day, he might end up ghosting you.
This behavior is a bad sign. It helps if you didn’t jump to conclusions that he likes you as much as you like him. He might like you to some extent, but that doesn’t mean that you deserve that. You deserve someone who is willing to text you properly and give you the attention that you deserve, someone consistent.
You might feel happy when he finally texts you after ignoring you for days, but this is not something you should be happy about. By the next day, he will go MIA. You shouldn’t have to tolerate it when someone treats you unfairly.
Tolerating it encourages that behavior.
Don’t forget the amount of pain this person caused you. You can’t allow him to change your mind with sweet words and empty promises. Stop blaming yourself for his actions. They reflect their character, not yours.
Focus on his behavior and what it says. He is unreliable, inconsistent, and immature. He isn’t someone who can give you what you want and make you happy. Stand up for yourself, and don’t let him walk all over you. He shouldn’t be allowed to come and go as he pleases. If he can’t meet your standards, then he can’t be in your life. It is as simple as that.
Don’t let someone with this sort of behavior take advantage of your kindness.
Set your standards to what you accept and what you won’t accept. You deserve someone who adores you and accepts you the way you are.
Be wise when you choose your partner. The right guy will appreciate you and respect you. He will know how to love you. When you let go of a guy with mixed feelings, you are teaching yourself what you deserve.
Other men that come into your life will thank that guy for letting you go. One man’s loss is another man’s gain. While one might take you for granted, the other will be grateful.
I hope you find that special someone who will be grateful for you.