Are you fed up with being lonely, disappointed and heartbroken?
What REALLY Prevents You From Attracting Lasting Love
Here’s the truth about attracting genuine love in your life: it’s all about small inner shifts that have big, life-changing results.
And, when you make them, you can make every single dating mistake in the book and it won’t matter.
The truth about attracting genuine love is all about small inner shifts that have big, life-changing results
These inner shifts get to the root of what’s blocking you from finding true love (destructive beliefs, fears, doubts, insecurity and pain) and empower us to know what we really want and don’t want in life and love.
These love blockers run under the surface of all we say and do, and even though we often don’t realize it, they control who we attract and how we feel in our relationships. (You Will Be Surprised How Much Our Subconscious Mind Rules Our Universe!)
It shows up in the men we date (unavailable, untrustworthy, jerks, deadbeats, cheaters.. you name it).. and in the way we feel with them (unfulfilled, disconnected, unsupported, lonely, fearful, incomplete…), and how we feel about ourselves (lonely, afraid, not pretty enough, not smart enough, anxious … (Here’s Why You Choose The Wrong Partners)
And until we address those root causes, we will never change the way we experience love.
Are You Making The Same Mistakes – Here’s How To Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind!
How To End Loneliness:
- Take up a new activity.
- Talk to someone about how you’re feeling.
- Volunteer helping older people in your community who might be experiencing loneliness is often simple, easy and enjoyable.
- Reach out to those around you – even if they are not lonely. Call old friends as a simple short conversation can go a long way.
So How Do We Avoid Feeling Disappointed:
That’s a really good question. There are a number of adjustments we can make to reduce our feelings disappointed without sacrificing enthusiasm. Here are three:
1. Accept wider parameters. When our expectations fall within parameters that are too narrow then there is a higher likelihood that we will end up disappointed. For example, if you go to Hawaii during the winter accept the fact that you will probably have some rainy days. Plan some non beach activities around those days and you’ll be covered. On the other hand, if having a good time requires that everyday be between 78-83 degrees with cloudless skies, that’s just asking to be disappointed. So loosening up on your expectations a bit reduces the chance of being disappointed.
2. Live in the moment. Viewing your life as an adventure allows you to enjoy the greatest variety of experiences. You still have the expectation of adventure, but you haven’t hemmed it into a preconceived package. Instead, you have left yourself open to just about anything that comes along and your enthusiasm remains high. Life is always a experience, cherish that and you’ll enjoy the ride.
3. Value learning. There are valuable lessons in every experience we have. How do you feel about these life lessons. Truth be told, some of our most profound learning comes from situations that didn’t turn out the way we thought they would. Much of the time we get what we need rather than what we want. If learning and growing is a top priority for us, we will find reasons to appreciate a wide range outcomes and experiences.
It’s all about attitude!
In the long run, it’s mostly up to us to decide what value we place on any experience. If we are looking for reasons to feel disappointed, that’s what we are going to find. Things don’t always turn out the way we might like, that’s a fact we all live with. Being enthusiastic and full of eager anticipation makes life fun and exciting. Learning to love the journey is the best defense against the dark cloud of disappointment.
How To Avoid Heartbreak:
1. Not all relationships must lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason, others are for a season only few are for a life time. If it doesn’t work out don’t kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and move on.
2. Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart.
3. Don’t get carried away with beauty or money, if that person’s inner person cannot keep you, his money or her beauty cannot either.
4. Love is never enough, understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and
tolerance are equally important.
5. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs. It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets ‘broken’.
6. Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship.
7. Don’t demand trust, earn it or build it or show it.
8. Never compare him or her to someone else.
9. Your relationship should not only be marriage driven but care, love and concern driven.
Loving yourself first, is very important in other words, make peace within yourself!
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